Discord with others at home, work, social circle

DISCORD WITH OTHERS

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Based on guidance from Siva Sir  |  PVH Practice Workbook

GUIDANCE FROM SIVA SIR

Maintain your practice consistently. Over time, situations may occur less frequently, be less intense, or resolve more quickly with less effort.

One simple way to do this is to regularly read the Forgiveness Affirmation and Page 7 for anyone you have a hunch about, and always include:

“…and Higher Soul of whoever is unhappy with me, jealous of me, or whoever I am unhappy with.”

Siva sir explained that many people around us are fearful about their jobs (even if on surface they appear friendly), making workplace healing and regular practice even more important.

 

FRAMEWORK AT A GLANCE

1.  Regular Maintenance

When Discord surfaces:

2.  Remove External Blocks

3.  Remove Self Blocks

4.  Heal with Divine Energy

 

1.  Regular Maintenance

TO DO — DAILY

☐  Aura Cleansing

☐  Ida-Pingala Balancing

☐  spiritual hygiene Song

☐  Read Forgiveness Affirmation for anyone you have a hunch about.

☐  Read Page 7, always including: “Higehr Soul of whoever is unhappy with me, jealous of me, or whoever I am unhappy with”

☐  Soul Elevation Song

– While playing, bring to awareness any people, situations, or patterns that need healing and allow them to go into Light.

 

Do Steps 2-4 when Discord surfaces 

2.  Remove External Blocks

TO DO — WHEN DISCORD ARISES (DO THIS FIRST)

☐  Read Forgiveness Affirmation using the specific relationship page (coworker, spouse, family, in-laws, etc.)

– Hold only that one page.

☐  Read Page 7 for the Higher Soul of that person and any entities or energies associated with them, including: “Higher Soul of whoever is unhappy with me, or whoever I am unhappy with”

☐  Use Pearl Wand (or Mass Blessing Wand) to remove dark energy from your energy bodies.

☐  Use Live Blessings and 2026 Soul Elevation Song.

– While the song plays, request all darkness around you and the relationship goes into Light through the portal.

☐  While holding Page 7 or the wand, bring to mind:

– Difficult people at home

– People creating difficulty at work

– People withholding money

☐  Do this daily or twice daily.

IF THE SITUATION IS INTENSE

☐  Read Forgiveness and Page 7 several times a day.

☐  Do this daily or twice daily until things shift.

 

3.  Remove Self Blocks

NOTE: If you are living with this person or the environment is very stressful or toxic, please contact Siva Sir or a local volunteer for guidance. Do extra steps for self-healing and nervous system healing.

TO DO

☐  Watch out for overthinking, reacting, arguing, or mentally replaying the situation.

☐  Check for souls, cords, BM, or outside influences regularly.

– These can directly affect your emotional state.

☐  Ask yourself:

– Where is my ego in this?

– Am I being an instrument of God, or am I stuck in my own opinions and expectations?

☐  If anxious, overwhelmed, or stuck in a thought loop:

– Stay with the “I AM” affirmation until you feel some separation from the situation.

☐  Do EFH practice (Emotional Freedom Healing) if additional support is needed.

– Continue until you feel lighter and more connected.

☐  Ask the wand to blaze away, burn away, and fully disintegrate negative thought patterns and emotions from your physical body, energy body, emotional body, and mental body, and bring only Divine Light in.

– Use a timer for 1–2 minutes.

☐  Extra grounding:

– Heal the root/base chakra frequently

– Clean the aura frequently

– Walk outside

– Connect with nature beings,

   Trees, water, mountains, earth, sun

 

4.  Heal with Divine Energy

TO DO

☐  “I AM” Affirmation

☐  “I AM Light” Affirmation

☐  Divine Fire for yourself, your soul, and the relationship, for harmony between both souls.

– If intense, do several times a day:

– While walking

– Bathing

– Dressing

– Cleaning

☐  Workplace or Home Affirmation if broader harmony is needed.

– (Worship page — replace “this place” with job name or home)

☐  Do extra Divine Fire for yourself and your soul.

– At least 5–10 minutes

– Twice daily

– Using a timer

☐  Read the Forgiveness Affirmation sincerely.

– Remember specific events

– Genuinely ask for forgiveness

– Let go

 

Tips & Explanations

REGULAR MAINTENANCE

Daily Practice

Do all of the above first thing in the morning. During challenging periods, repeat before bedtime as well.

Consistent daily practice is what reduces discord over time. Situations occur less frequently, feel less intense, and resolve faster.

REMOVE EXTERNAL BLOCKS

Why Use the Specific Relationship Page?

Each relationship carries its own karmic entanglements and energetic patterns.

Hold only that page. Do not hold or show two relationship pages together.

Why Read Page 7 for the Other Person?

This removes dark energy around yourself, the other person, the relationship itself, and any darkness created through thoughts, emotions, resentment, fear, anger, hurt, or conflict.

Why the Live Blessings and Soul Elevation Song Are Important

Siva Sir called this out as a key step to speed up progress.

Use both actively during the session, not as background.

Forgiveness Happens Soul-to-Soul

Physical communication with the other person is not required.

Sometimes creating physical distance can even help the soul-level process.

Follow your intuition.

REMOVE SELF BLOCKS

Watch Your Own Thoughts and Emotions

As our spiritual practice deepens, our thoughts and emotions have faster effects, even the negative ones, and can become strong cords. This lowers our own vibration; Not only this can hurt others but could also attract more of such experiences to us. Explore this especially if you find similar situations repeating, and spend time with Self Forgiveness pg 1 and I AM affirmation.

People are intuitive too and may be reacting to our internal judgements without consciously knowing it. 

Our thoughts about them can also create a hook for their dark energies to connect to us.

 (See video)

How Do You Know You Are Reaching Neutral?

When you feel willing to accept any outcome.

This connects to two principles:

– The Buddhist Middle Path

– The Hindu principle of detachment from the fruits of actions

HEAL WITH DIVINE ENERGY

Divine Fire Guidance

Do not use the other person's name.

Work on the relationship itself and request harmony between both souls.

If the Affirmations Feel Mechanical

Stay with the practice. Stay on a sentence, repeat until it sinks in, if needed.

Over time, your conscious awareness begins to absorb the words and the reading becomes fast!

It is this conscious reading that allows healing to go much deeper than the thinking mind alone.

Once you reach this level, it is okay to read only the invocation and first couple lines. The words would come to you even without the book! 

Family Situations Take Longer

Family situations could have much deeper roots and may take longer to address the karmic entanglements. However, your own responses and inner acceptance can shift much faster than the outer relationship. 

That shift in you may just be the real progress.

Need Additional Support?

If you are living with the person or the environment is highly stressful or toxic:

– Contact Siva Sir

– Contact a local volunteer

– Increase self-healing

– Increase nervous system healing

 

Based on direct experiences and ongoing guidance from Siva Sir, Rosario Madam, Sreenithi Madam, and all PVH friends.

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Please feel free to share your own experiences or practices so we can all learn from each other.